When I first started as an entrepreneur in my late teenage years I began to engage in the business world thru social gatherings or at work. I realized real quick that I had to get an understanding how to detect lies and deception from individuals. Build on what I learned from Steven Pinker’s book, “The Blank Slate” from a book I chose to do a book report in high school. But the honest truth of my recent statement is that it was not till my mid twenties until I came to the full realization of this. It took time for me to realize the hard truth how dark and deceitful people can be.

I was brought up by parents who taught me the importance of once’s reputation specially in regards to relationship with people. As well as to keep away from negative and deceitful people. I figured hey just stay away from those types of people and I am safe. To be on the safe side I read books such as, The Art of Deception, The Prince, and including infamous books on generals and warriors for recreational and historical purposes. Including the writings of Marcus Aurelius.

I learned the hard way there is a difference between being book smart and street smart on detecting lies and deception. So in this blog post I am writing some helpful tips for those who struggle as I did and to become street smart in detecting lies and deception. I do want to caution you on the following knowledge. Do not utilize this knowledge to twist to do evil to one. One reaps what one sows. It will come back to you one way or another. Focus on the good and the positive. It will give you a unique advantage.

Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one.

Marcus Aurelius

TruthTruth needs no defense it can stand on its own. Occupy the moral high ground. When you come under moral attack from a clever enemy, don’t whine or get angry–fight fire with fire. Fight with the truth. If your enemies take it to the next level. Instill doubts and insecurities in rivals, getting them to think too much about their lies. Terror can paralyze a one’s will to resist and destroy their ability to plan a strategic response. Also always speak the truth to that person who can help you, never lie to that person specially when you are being wronged by someone else.

A Lie – A lie when weaponized can easily be detected by how is said by that person and the body language. Study body language, the body never lies including facial expressions. People tend to touch their nose more when they are lying. They also become more impulsive, change of tone of their normal voice. They even exaggerate when speaking. When you are being targeted with a lie study the mind who spoke the lie. The target of your strategy to counter the lie is not the army you face, but the mind who runs it. Gather intelligence before action.

Deception – Detecting deception can come easily based on someone’s actions or it could take time to detect a deceit. Be alert and focus on the actions of that individual. Here are some tips.

  • Liars tend to answer a question with a question.
  • Liars tend to ask for a question to be repeated or clarified.
  • Liars tend to justify their actions when no justification is necessary.
  • Liars tend to feign memory loss using statements such as “I don’t remember that” and “I don’t remember.”
  • Liars tend to use passive language when describing.
  • Liars take the moral ground when it suits them to an advantage.
  • Utilize your words to get microexpressions from liars to detect deception.

Acquiring the truth thru disarmament – Whenever you are wanting to get the truth about something from an individual who wants to evade from telling you what you want to know. They give you their version and weaponize a lie and when you see their facial expression of a lie do the following. Be fast on your feet (speed is everything here). Utilize a past event with that individual who you spoke to them about a topic relating to what you are wanting to know or an action. Rephrase it to them in another way. When you do this it will create doubt in their mind where they think you did not do that task or you told them a lie about a past action. If they think this and say something to you and act surprised. It is because they are so focused on their own lie. You caught them off guard. Then you re-explain just like you did the first time and your second time. Justify it with truth, no lies. If they are upset. It is their facial expression and emotional energy that is coming out of them that they were utilizing to lie to you that is talking. You could leave them boggled and disarmed with this action.

Phone conversation – When you are asking a person about a certain topic you are trying to get the truth about. If their tone of voice goes high and acts defensively – they are lying or deceiving you. If they never return your call or stay way from you because of your question it confirms the lie and deception.

Fraud is a big problem happening in our society today. There are many people out there who will wrong someone and use criminal deception (also theft) intending to gain a financial/personal gain. They do this and many gain what they desire. But depending on how they do it and how big the fraud was on who they had to hurt or steal from will follow the magnitude of the repercussions. You may be asking yourself how is this possible?

The Law of Vibration states that everything in the Universe moves and vibrates – everything is vibrating at one speed or another. Nothing rests. Science has shown that everything is energy. You, me and everything else has its own vibrational frequency. We are bound by The Law of Vibration because the Creator/God placed it there. This brings me to bring up the First Law of Thermodynamics which states.

Energy can be changed from one form to another, but it cannot be created or destroyed. The total amount of energy and matter in the Universe remains constant, merely changing from one form to another. -First Law of Thermodynamics

According to these laws people who commit the fraud cannot escape the consequences. They may try to offset the karma by doing good to someone. Its not going to work unless they undo the wrong to that individual or entity paid in full including for pain and suffering. When that energy wave comes to that individual or group who wrong that person, it will come hard in some form or another. Those who continually wrong someone little do they know that they actions immediately manifest in the spiritual realm. Wait? Spiritual realm? Yes, reader I said spiritual realm.

We live in a multi-dimensional universe in which the spiritual dimensions exist in parallel to our three-dimensional physical world. The spiritual realms operate in continuity with the physical/natural world that we observe. Most humans cannot see into the spiritual dimensions, so we can only observe the physical side of existence.

“We are not human beings having a spiritual experience; we are spiritual beings having a human experience.” – Pierre Teilhard de Chardin

If you are reading this and you are a victim of a fraud committed to thee or just plainly wronged. The most important step is to forgive that individual because in order for the laws to work in your favor you must do this. In doing this you will remove the negativity of the situation and begin the healing process within you. Having a clear head is important especially when it comes to making important decisions such as filing a lawsuit against that individual or entity who committed a fraud against you. Maybe you may not have to do anything and let the laws work in your favor.

Reader if you are having trouble grasping the spiritual realm on what I meant please view this video below to better grasp also the Law of Vibration.